China's etiquette

China's etiquette

Since ancient times, the Chinese people have attached great importance to friendship and etiquette.On festivals and visiting relatives and friends, they often wish each other well and give gifts.No matter how much, the transmission is a trace of warmth, a love, a paragraph of sincere feelings.

As an old saying goes, "A hedge between keeps friendship green."This sentence means that friends should treat each other with affection rather than material things.The normal exchange of gifts is also a sincere exchange of feelings, because it helps to strengthen the connection between people.Such ceremony is to reflect the feeling, and is "light ceremony and heavy feeling."With the change of The Times and the development of society, the nature and application of "affection" and "propriety" have also changed and developed, and they have also developed in different directions, which makes the relationship between people increasingly complicated and harmful.It is actually a deformed exchange of affection gifts, a disguised way of trading, cold mutual use.It destroys the sincere friendship between people, corrupts the simple social atmosphere, it is "impropriety".

Therefore, the eradication of those non rite, set up the proper civilization of the rite, I also China's original appearance of the state of rites, Li Bai said: "life your friend, why gold and money."It expresses the profound philosophy of light courtesy and heavy affection.Therefore, advise people gifts should not be on more with less money comparing, and appropriate to send more can truly reflect the items of friendship, like a bunch of fresh flowers fragrance, a chic card, a nice book, a "good" them, money is not much, but can make feel fall to the giver, recipients than blindly and easy to send money is "love" is much more "meaning".If everyone does this, reciprocity can become a virtuous circle.